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Let them

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Let them I love this phrase that my fab friend shared with me. Two little words that say so much. A very empowering phrase. I have spent a long time, as many folk have, worrying and wondering what people think. Where has it got us? People are going to think what they want about you, positive or negative. Whether you have a two hour analysis about your conversation! Hence, the 'let them'!  It really is enough to be who we are, without changing to fit in. I was actually talking to my lovely friend the other day about something and as I was about to go down that rabbit hole of what people might think, she looked at me and just said, "Let them." Two very freeing words. This phrase takes the emphasis off you and your actions and places it more on them. She told me about this fab book by Mel Robbins that I now need to buy.  We can overthink things. We do waste time worrying about what other people think. Especially when they might be doing exactly the same! But even if they...